200th Post!! MuahahahaBeing civilized, being considerate, being kind.... All these words looked simple..But are human beings like us are practising them daily??
My answer to my own question is NOPE!Simple rules like
offering help voluntarily, thinking about other people's outcry and suffering, being polite when you talk..Simply not practised by EVERYBODY in Malaysia yet..What do you expect from the world if we can't even start from our very own country..
Well..First of all, being civilized is simply not easy..What is CIVIL by the way?
According to the definition from the dictionary..It says....
1. having an advanced or humane culture, society, etc.
2. polite; well-bred; refined.
3. of or pertaining to civilized people.
4. easy to manage or control; well organized or ordered
Based on my experiences in school as a prefect, I can tell you that students alone are not civilized..Most of us don't think out of the box including myself..And therefore, we're left behind as the person who are very unadvanced..We don't learn human culture like how our great great great grandparents do..Besides that, students themselves are not polite..They scream, they shout, they throw all their tantrums at victims like teachers and prefects..Not only that, today my daddy experienced something which startledhim so much..He found a chewed chewing gum all over his car's window..Isn't that disgusting?? So how do we practise simple civilization daily? It is simply easy..
1st, realize who we are..we are HERE for a reason!!
2nd, wish everyone GOOD MORNING
3rd, say thank you and sorry..Don't be shy
Haihya..Don't tell me these kind of things also need me to teach ah??? Common sense ma...Moving on, being considerate..!!
Consideration.............A word you can see anywhere you go..A word you can find in your Oxford dictionary..A word applied in daily life as well..!
1. showing kindly awareness or regard for another's feelings, circumstances, etc
2. carefully considered; deliberate.
3. marked by consideration or reflection; deliberate; prudent.
So, it is mainly about being aware of other people's feeling..But owh I can tell you, most of us doesn't know how to put ourselves in other people's shoe..But as you grow, you tend to realize more things around you..And I believe with that, we adapt with the environment and try to be kind to other people's feeling..This is very important..Because you'll never know when you'll break a heart..
I've always tried my best to be kind to people..At times, it just doesn't help as your heart will end up bleeding thinking too much about other people..Well, do things in a moderate way as mentioned in my previous post..Don't be too selfish nor too kind..Act according to the situation..If possible, be considerate because you'll never know how people suffer because of YOU!!! And if you're being considerate, you're being aware of your surroundings..
Last but not least..being
Kind....
1. having, showing, or proceeding from benevolence
2. of a good or benevolent nature or disposition, as a person
Be kind and don't harm others..If only murderers. rapers, robbers, politicians, etc etc can think this way, I guess, we can all abolish newspapers and news like BBC and CNN on air...But the fact that it is impossible, so let's just practise all three in a very mild way to suit your daily life..And as you count those days, be MORE considerate, civilized and kind each day!!!! :D