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According to a psychologist..There are three types of love which can be categorized..
Age 12 and below = Love based on appearance
Age 13-25 = Love based on trend
Age 26 and above = Mutual love which involves commitment
Although I don't quite agree with the age 13-25 love based on trend..But yes for the other two..I mean people do commit themselves even when they are 22,23 or 24..And I find loving a person based on trend is plain silly..You love a person just because you want to be on the same boat as the rest, trying to catch up with the trend of having boyfriends and girlfriends, which is something to be very proud of..
Some girls think, losing their virginity now is something to be very proud of too..Which I personally think, premarital sex is a very shameful thing..
Here are some tips for girls when choosing a partner..
Two things to look at......
1. Is the guy a responsible man?
2. Is the guy someone who loves and cares about you
If he has both, congratz, you'll be perfectly fine..You're free from all worries about getting pregnant and losing your virginity..Because if he loves you sincerely,truly and loves you for who you are, he'll always be there to protect you from any harm or danger..And not to lure you into his desires which will cause you a dead end in your life..
Besides that, I am also here to talk about long-distance relationship..
"Distance is not the end of the world in a
relationship "
Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.
Although you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationship at times, hold fast and trust your heart!
I truly believe that love & relationships are what make your life special, and that ones built on love & understanding are always worth preserving, regardless of the miles that may separate two people.
All across the world, there are couples who are crazy about each other but are forced by circumstance to live apart :-
1.University students try to concentrate while writing love letters on the Internet to "hometown honeys"...
2.Executives climb the corporate ladder while their true love waits for their call hundreds of miles away...
3.Members of our armed forces who protect freedom worldwide...
4.New lovers who meet while browsing online dating communities ...
5.Even Hollywood stars, who must sustain love & relationships and marriages while making movies in different countries...
TIPS TO HOLD ON?
Jealousy is one of the most negative and destructive emotions there is! Listen to Shakespeare:
O, beware, my lord, of jealousy
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on; that cuckold lives in bliss
Who, certain of his fate, loves not his wronger
But, O, what damned minutes tells he o’er
Who dotes, yet doubts, suspects, yet strongly loves!
AHAK..He meant trust your partner and Have faith in him/her..!!
Yes, I do trust you, my dear..
Always..